RETREATS
With pure intentions, we set off on an inward adventure—one that leads us toward the light of our truest selves. Through playful, heart-opening practices and exploration, we shed the layers that have shielded us, allowing love to flow freely.
We nourish our bodies with organic elixirs, move through soul-awakening yoga, and sit in guided meditation. We deepen our connections in sacred partnership, gazing into each other’s souls.
We enter a sweat lodge infused with ancient crystals and volcanic stones, their heat rising from a glowing embers. Emerging purified, we plunge into pools of cool, refreshing water—reborn in body and spirit.
Together, we share a nourishing meal, exchanging wisdom and insights on the art of tantric love. As the night unfolds, we retreat to private dwellings scattered beneath a sky of endless stars. We honor ourselves. We embrace our partners. We make love like never before.
We never want to leave.
This just might be heaven on earth.
The Sanctuary
All activities at The Sanctuary are designed to embrace earthly desires as a path to enlightenment. Here, we engage in practices that deepen intimacy, refine male orgasmic control, liberate female pleasure, and ultimately unlock the potential for mind-expanding connection.
Guided discussions—led by Damon, specialized teachers, and the shared wisdom of the group—flow seamlessly into active soul gazing. What follows is a private journey, where each of us indulges in the discoveries made, deepening our connection to ourselves and our partners.
Through years immersed in his own erotic exploration and the experiences of others, Damon has come to one undeniable truth: a deep dive into tantric love is transcendent—and available to all.
Upon arrival at The Sanctuary, the material world is left behind. Societal masks fall away. We seek a spirituality that emanates from within, without the expectations and illusions we once carried. Here, our possessions—those things we once deemed valuable—hold no meaning.
This is our oasis. A place to shed the unreal. A place to awaken.
All as one, overflowing with love.
The Gathering
Four times a year, for our members and their invited guests, The Sanctuary transforms into a wonderland of love and exploration.
Imagine your highest emotional sensations—resonating inward and outward—rippling in waves of blissful joy, shared as one. Here, at the core of the cosmos, we gather in sacred union, dissolving the boundaries between self and other. From the moment you arrive until the first light of dawn, you will experience what you have only dared to dream.
Men who wish to join The Gathering must apply for membership, fulfill payment, and complete a tantric training course to earn their M. or O.F.M. patch. CONNECT with us via private email.
Ladies who seek to attend The Gathering will complete a similar course but may bypass the membership fees. CONNECT with us via private email.
Partner Soul Gazing
Sit with your partner for a soul gazing session—an intimate practice in the mutual transference of unconditional love.
Soul gazing is a foundational pillar of tantric love. It requires absolute presence, full commitment to the moment, and unwavering focus on your partner. As you gaze into each other’s eyes, the outside world dissolves, leaving only the energetic union between you.
If you’re reading this, it’s likely you crave a deeper connection. This is the moment where your mind may resist, whispering that soul gazing isn’t for you. Because to entertain the idea that something has always been missing—something that can now be discovered—can be unsettling. Or perhaps a different voice inside you says: this is what I’ve always longed to explore, and I never realized the opportunity was available.
In either case, with an open mind, you are already on the path to the most profound intimacy—and the best sex of your life.
These lessons may reveal more than you expect. You might discover that you are with the right partner—or the wrong one. When you become truly authentic to your heart’s desires, the truth emerges. Sometimes, what you share is a deep and valuable friendship, but not romantic love. When this happens, an open and honest conversation can illuminate whether obstacles can be overcome—or if a conscious uncoupling is the most loving path forward.
On the other hand, you may realize something extraordinary: that sitting before you is your soulmate. And that your love is about to ascend to heights you never imagined.
Tantric Love
This life-changing experience is a “new planet” for individuals and couples seeking to elevate their spiritual lives, unlock ecstatic pleasure, and deepen their connection in ways they never imagined.
Few of us have been taught the mysteries of sexual love and romantic relationships. As a result, many find themselves less successful in their personal intimacy than in other areas of life. Tantric love transforms sex into a powerful, conscious experience—one that has the potential to profoundly reshape your relationship.
Sex, in its simplest form, requires little effort—anyone can move toward climax through instinct alone. But to open, surrender, and authentically connect with your partner in profound new ways—to reach an otherworldly, mutual climax—that is the art.
There are often unspoken truths that shape the dynamics of romantic partnership, beginning with the physical. If you and your partner do not align in a basic, primal sense, the road to ecstasy may be more challenging—but not impossible. The key is to shed performance, release expectation, and evolve into lovers who exist fully in the moment—attuned to every breath, every movement, every pulse of energy shared.
In that space, we transcend. In that space, we enter the divine.
Class Options & Pricing
Soul Gazing & Tantric Love Group Class
• Singles: $1,000
• Couples: $1,500
Group classes guide participants through the art of soul gazing and tantric love, incorporating intimate touch and kiss, leading to private exploration. Singles and couples participate in separate group sessions.
Weekends at The Sanctuary
• Couples: $5,000 (All-Inclusive)
A full weekend immersion in The Sanctuary, designed to nourish body, mind, and spirit. Your stay includes:
✓ Life-nourishing cuisine
✓ Organic elixirs
✓ Yoga & meditation
✓ Soul gazing & tantric love group classes
✓ Private accommodations in a serene, sacred setting
The Gathering
Members & Invitation Only | Multi-Night Experience of Ecstasy
Hosted and curated by Damon Lawner and special guests, The Gathering is a transformative, multi-night experience for members and their invited guests.
At The Sanctuary, all participants wear comfortable, light-colored clothing, with little or no makeup. Members wear custom caftans adorned with earned patches and embroidery, symbolizing their journey.
Health & Safety
To ensure a safe and sacred space, all participants in The Gathering must undergo comprehensive STD testing (blood & urine) at our designated labs 1–2 days before the event. Results are delivered within 24 hours, and only fully cleared participants may attend.
Membership
5-Year Original Founding Member (O.F.M.)
Price Upon Request
A rarified membership, limited to only 10 individuals, offering unparalleled access to The Sanctuary and its most sacred gatherings.
Benefits:
✓ Private, members-only Gatherings held quarterly at The Sanctuary, hosted & curated by Damon, never open to the public—except for your approved and invited complimentary guests.
✓ Unlimited access to The Sanctuary, available 24/7 for private experiences with your guests for 5 years.
✓ Complimentary overnight lodging—5 nights annually, for 5 years.
✓ Membership package includes:
• Custom caftans with earned O.F.M. patches
• Gold Ouroboros & sacred geometry necklace
• Fresh flowers upon arrival
• Naturally enhancing tinctures from Mother Earth
✓ O.F.M. Voting Rights
Original Founding Members hold voting privileges within our society, influencing locations & dates for Retreats, as well as the approval of guests & volunteers.
Annual Membership (M.)
$50,000 per year
A yearly membership granting privileged access to The Sanctuary and its transformative experiences.
Benefits:
✓ Private, members-only Gatherings held quarterly, hosted & curated by Damon, never open to the public—except for your approved and invited guests.
✓ Complimentary overnight lodging—5 nights annually.
✓ Membership package includes:
• Custom caftans with earned M. patches
• Fresh flowers upon arrival
• Naturally enhancing tinctures from Mother Earth
